I had just learned something new about my other half. I heard it from one of our neighbors here in OV two days ago. It made me wonder why he had to tell it to other person when it should be me, the wife, should know the information first. No, this is not about where he is and and what he is doing recently for I don’t know. The information is general. I was just shocked upon knowing it for I totally realized how blind I was and that I married a total stranger.
I kept throwing this line to him before: “I feel like I don’t know you completely, who are you really?”. That day the new information was told, I felt I was shaken with truth yet so unbelievable. No, I need to hear it straight from him for me to believe. I am not mad at him now. I can’t. I heard implications and sensed signs from him before but I just let those out through my other ear and dumped away. I was just too careless to think those things were less important. Or I was just too scared to accept.
Whatever that information I’ve just found out, I would like to keep it to myself. The neighbor said, the wife is always the last person to know. So be it.
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Jessica Cassidy (1)
i hope what you heard wasn’t that bad…
for all it’s worth, i sometimes tell hubby the same thing, too. it’s like he wasn’t the person i knew before we got married. but i guess people change, and maybe i have changed, too. wait, i know i have changed. LOL. i just hope it’s for the better.
hoping and praying that your marriage will weather through all the challenges you and your husband will encounter…
ps. followed you via gfc and liked your fb page.
“the wife is always the last person to know”
That is one thing I hate and disagree! It’s like walking without your head. Tama ba?
Tagalog – naglalakad na walang ulo. And I don’t like that!
nacurious tuloy ako sis. anyway, it’s always best to ask your husband about whatever it is that you’d heard about him. communication and trust are two important ingredients of a lasting (long distance) relationship…
hi chie.. interesting post…but what whatever it us, i hope you’ll get over it… have a great day!
Be strong sis, I noticed that most men would tell others things first before actually mentioning anything to their partner… which I also hate. Don’t worry, in time you would have to talk to him about that and tell him that you have the right to know since you are after all his wife.
Chie,
I hope that whatever problems you guys have that you will be able to resolved it immediately and amicably. I am praying for a happy ending for both of you!
Nah, ask your husband nalang, you know nmn ang mga neighbor kahit ano napag uusapan hehe..anyway msg mo lng ako sa fb if ok kana for tweaking my blog..see yah!
Hope by now you and your husband is okay whatever the issue was..
I hope that whatever problems you guys have that you will be able to resolved it immediately and amicably. I am praying for a happy ending for both of you!